It is easy for men to focus on the act of
receiving pleasure when it comes to
inti.macy, but the things that can make a girl
truly swoon can be very surprising.
If you are not doing these things listed below, then
you are most probably not satisfying her the way
she expects:
1. F.oreplay: A woman needs to get adequately turned-on before the actual se.x begin. While a man
is usually always ready for action without
preamble, a woman needs some time to warm up.
She would be completely grateful if you take the
time to please her through means like dirty talking,
kissing, touching and so on. When she is ready, you would know it, and it would become a better
experience between the both of you
2. Comfort: Another way to make sure she is satisfied is when you give her an opportunity to
relax and let go. A woman needs to get
comfortable with herself and what she is about to
do for her to be able to give you her best. Make
sure you consider her comfort level. Avoid
situations that would leave her feeling pressured or nervous
3. Take Your Time: Making love to a woman often requires a lot of patience. Be in control of her
pleasure and avoid rushing her through the
process
4. Know Her Body: The difference between good and bad se.x, for women, usually comes down to
ability to listen to her body. While pleasuring her,
remember to keep notes of what she likes. When
you do hit the right spot, keep going until you are
sure she is completely under your control. Be sure
to focus on her as much as yourself (even more) and work with the cues she provides
5. Use Your Tongue: Never underestimate the power of the tongue during in.timacy. A lot of
women usually do not org.asm from pe.netration
alone but most women would swear by a good
tongue action being their ticket to achieving
cl.imax. Ravish her with your hands and tongue
and she would find it very difficult to say no to being with you.
6. Ladies First: Speaking of or.gasm, a truly great se.x partner makes sure his lady achieve the
ultimate peak of pleasure before he does. There is
nothing as disappointing to a lady as leaving her
hanging after you have attained your own
pleasure. If you have issues lasting long in bed, find
other ways to love her that would leave her feeling satisfied before you shift the focus on yourself.
7. Be A Gentleman: Instead of just turning over and going to sleep after the act, take a moment to
cuddle her, compliment her and basically make her
feel good about what you both just did. No woman
wants to be left feeling like a used piece of meat
after se.x.